A good friend of mine , while I was dating Susan, pointed out to me the best thing to do would be to date for six months before you got engaged. November 18, 2007 was exactly 6 months from our first date, and that would be the date I would propose. You know when she said yes to my second date would have been enough to convince - but I did show some restraint. This led to my planning to buy a ring and the proposal. November 18th was on a Sunday, so that worked out. I could propose to her at the church where we met, the kids could have handed her roses, and the rest of the congregation along with us would break out into a Grease-like song and dance number. The choreography worked out in my head. I now had an awesome plan. I bought the ring at the mall nearest to Susan's condo (but out of my way). Susan was out of town with friends for a bachelorette party, so I knew she wouldn't run into me there. I found the right ring while with my nephew. I did threaten him under penalty of ...