For people who don't know my wife and I, we are currently going through an international adoption process. We started with the Taiwan program and are also currently in the China special needs program. We have had many ups and downs (more downs than ups to be truthful). We still wait patiently in year five of this process. We started the program officially in January 2011 after spending the previous year praying and searching. We went international over domestic for a variety of reasons due to age, the laws of the countries, and that we felt the call. Taiwan was chosen due to the potential child's age, length of time for the process, cost, and the length of time overseas. The Taiwan has been a real struggle for us. Things that we were told have not come to pass., and I have felt our hearts and spirits have been played with. I am fairly certain that I will not be receiving a Christmas card from some of the staff of the Taiwan program due to my responses to them. Throughout thi...