The countdown to the wedding was on. Like any big event in one's life, there was loads of excitements and stresses. There was much to plan and after 37 years of being single, we were going to have a celebration. Getting the church and reception hall on the same day was easy - paying for it would be a little more stressful. We were able to find a great photographer for the wedding (thanks Petra). A quick aside here if you ever need a good photographer, Petra is your lady to make that happen. Going from a boyfriend-girlfriend dynamic to a fiancé dynamic is a change. There's many items you have to consider. Where will the two of you live?, how will you co-exist?, how will the holidays be handled with in-laws involved?, where will my collection of comic books live? All important things to think about. I had been living on my own for a while and here I was making a drastic change to the way I lived. There was going to be some disagreements, compromises, and decisions made. But, tha...