Promises. We do make them a lot. Even if we don't have any intentions of keeping them. How many of us have promised God we would become a monk or nun if He got us out of a jam? Or, made promises to our parents to keep ourselves out of punishment? So, we do make some promises we know we won't keep. Others we do keep and others we try and fail to. When one gets married, we make promises to each other. Vows. What we will do for each other. These are typically made in front of friends and family. Love, Honor, and Cherish. Maybe, obey ;) These are promises that are not made lightly. These are serious commitments made to the one we plan on spending the rest of our lives with. As such, pretty important. We make them for public consumption and keep them in private as well. If you are married, I do hope and pray that you are doing your best to keep your vows. I try, some days better than others. There can be many distractions thrown our way. Life gets in the way sometimes. Our focus ...